Yesterday one of my friends finished a difficult race in NFS-underground 2 which he had been trying to complete for many days. After finishing it, he looked back to see if anyone was watching or not.He gave a genunine pure and happy smile when he noticed I was watching. I now wonder what he would have felt like if no one was paying attention.
Everyone of us needs love, care and attention from others. You always need someone to share your victories and defeats. You need someone to pat you on your back when you get good grades, when you win prizes. One of my friends had to go to delhi alone to attend an interview. He got selected and he noticed that his cell's battery was down. He went to a std booth and told us about getting selected. He later told us that it was raining heavily there and he got completely drenched before he reached the std booth. I think he would have done anything just to tell us that he got selected.
And when someone is in trouble words like 'its ok', 'dont worry', 'it'll be alrite' will make you feel a lot better. But these words should be meant and not just uttered. And when you are trying to comfort someone, dont show pity, people hate that. One more thing is that if someone you know is in grief, but you dont feel anything, dont show false sympathy. That person will die if he comes to know that all that comforting was a lie sometime later.. it will break his heart. Calling someone and saying 'I heard the news... iam really really sorry..blah..blah..blah..' without being a bit sorry is the worst thing that you could do. Staying away from that person or not talking about that is a lot better than this. But if you really care, words arent even required, a gentle touch on the shoulder, a comforting hug or your mere presence would lessen the poor fellows trouble.
And for people who are loners- you are missing out all the happy things. Try to come out once and make friends. I got an sms from someone a few days back. I dont remember it completely. but it goes something like this- atleast 20 people like to talk with you, at any point atleast 10 people are thinking about you, atleast 5 would do anything to make you happy, atleast one would give his life for you.. And I say this applies to all. Now if you remain in ur closed rooms and dont mingle with anybody, how are you going to know who these people are? When someone cares so much for you the least you can do is to make friends with him. And by doing that you will also know the joy of having a true friend. If this paragraph manages to make atleast one person give up his lonesome( i dont know if this word exists) and experiance the joy of friendship, i will consider myself lucky..
I guess I deviated from what I started to write.. But its so nice i dont feeling like changing..
Ne ways the idea of the post is dont miss any opportunity to congratulate others. A simple compliment,a sincere praise,an honest 'iam sorry' and a true 'i love you' can make some ones dil go mmmm mmmm mmmmmmmmm
Everyone of us needs love, care and attention from others. You always need someone to share your victories and defeats. You need someone to pat you on your back when you get good grades, when you win prizes. One of my friends had to go to delhi alone to attend an interview. He got selected and he noticed that his cell's battery was down. He went to a std booth and told us about getting selected. He later told us that it was raining heavily there and he got completely drenched before he reached the std booth. I think he would have done anything just to tell us that he got selected.
And when someone is in trouble words like 'its ok', 'dont worry', 'it'll be alrite' will make you feel a lot better. But these words should be meant and not just uttered. And when you are trying to comfort someone, dont show pity, people hate that. One more thing is that if someone you know is in grief, but you dont feel anything, dont show false sympathy. That person will die if he comes to know that all that comforting was a lie sometime later.. it will break his heart. Calling someone and saying 'I heard the news... iam really really sorry..blah..blah..blah..' without being a bit sorry is the worst thing that you could do. Staying away from that person or not talking about that is a lot better than this. But if you really care, words arent even required, a gentle touch on the shoulder, a comforting hug or your mere presence would lessen the poor fellows trouble.
And for people who are loners- you are missing out all the happy things. Try to come out once and make friends. I got an sms from someone a few days back. I dont remember it completely. but it goes something like this- atleast 20 people like to talk with you, at any point atleast 10 people are thinking about you, atleast 5 would do anything to make you happy, atleast one would give his life for you.. And I say this applies to all. Now if you remain in ur closed rooms and dont mingle with anybody, how are you going to know who these people are? When someone cares so much for you the least you can do is to make friends with him. And by doing that you will also know the joy of having a true friend. If this paragraph manages to make atleast one person give up his lonesome( i dont know if this word exists) and experiance the joy of friendship, i will consider myself lucky..
I guess I deviated from what I started to write.. But its so nice i dont feeling like changing..
Ne ways the idea of the post is dont miss any opportunity to congratulate others. A simple compliment,a sincere praise,an honest 'iam sorry' and a true 'i love you' can make some ones dil go mmmm mmmm mmmmmmmmm
1 comments:
I think its better if I post a praise other than a comment...wat u wrote is very much correct..a word of care is more valuable to a person.Nice to see this..
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