Trust:
When do you trust someone? When u think he is trustworthy? Thats ok. But isnt it a lot nicer to show someone you trust him thereby making him trustworthy? I know trusting someone blindly is a stupid idea. But some times its correct. The best way to gain someones trust is to trust him. Out of 100 people there is only one person who would take advantage of your trusting him. But the other 99 would never dissappoint you. So sometimes or rather many times its this blind trust that helps.
Miracles:
I read this somewhere: "You might be intelligent, but if you are not foolish enough to believe in miracles, then your intelligence is always incomplete". To a practical person, there is no such thing as a miracles, but i say he is wrong. Prayer, belief, faith, hope etc wouldnt have any meaning if there were no miracles. When we pray to God for something, we are hoping for a miracle and we believe that God will help us and this faith causes a miracle. You had an accident and had to rest in your bed for a month, then instead of cursing, try to observe the miracle that you escaped alive. Even at the point of least hope, remember that miracles do happen and ask the divine one for one.
Happiness & Luck:
Happiness, though easy to obtain, is achieved by very few. Happiness and satisfaction move side by side. A new born child is the happiest person on earth. Let me not talk about every child, but stick to a child from typical middle class in AP. As soon as he joins in school, his greatest sources of unhappiness are homework, bullying by the big guys and teachers(atleast in some cases). And then starts the battle for getting a rank in eamcet aieee iit etc. Here his worries about what his rank would be, his future, the ug coll etc make him unhappy. Then, in the next stage, girl friends, pocket money etc. And after that, getting a good job, finding the correct life partner. And then all sorts of problems.
All these lead to unhappiness..
" Instead of being cursing on your being unlucky, try to see the things in which u were lucky ". The general mistake people do is that they are Sherlock Holmes's in observing their bad luck. Yesterday you lost ur wallet. Hell!! But what about the 1000 rs prize you won the day before? Last month, you fell down from stairs and broke your leg. Yeah?? But arent you forgetting your escaping certain death last year? The point to note is that both good luck and bad luck come in the ratio of very close to 50-50. There is definitely no one who is 100% unlucky. So when something bad happens remember that something else which is a lot more good has happened too. And remember "Everything happens for good".
Friendship:
"A friend is someone blah blah blah...". There are lots of quotes that go on like this. But, u can call someone a true friend if you can be urself with him. As simple as that! You should be able to say anything and everything to him. There is only one enemy to friendship, its ego. Get rid of your ego when with your friend. There should be empathy and not envy or ego. Ego feelings like "He didn’t wish me on my birthday, why should I?”, ” let him send me a friend request in orkut, y should I?" and jealous thoughts like "He isn’t that good at chess, how could he win?" are the ultimate villains in friendship. When someone gets a prize, succeeds at something or is celebrating with joy and you feel ur heart dancing with joy too, then that person has found a true friend. And if you won something or succeeded somewhere and someone is distributing sweets, then, congratulations! For you have a true friend. A friend isn’t hard to find, look around carefully and you'll see that everyone is a true friend waiting to be.
Love:
Iam not well qualified to say something about this. But ill try and tell you what I believe. As a man who believes in miracles, I believe in love at first sight. At your first meeting, you might feel that that is the person made for you. But it always isn’t the case. But there is one thing I am very sure of - two persons falling in love with each other simultaneously is rather unrealistic and old black-and-white-movie like. It’s always one falls in love, then tries to impress the other person and thereby makes him fall in love too. So the kind of replies people (mostly gals) give like "don’t feel that way for you", "I considered you a friend" etc are stupid coz why would anyone propose someone if he is sure the other person loves him too? Its only coz he thinks you still considered him only a friend and don’t feel that way for him, he is proposing you rite? Anyway, that’s my argument. But as i already told you, iam not at all qualified to say anything about it. So if u don’t like- lite teesko.
The Perfect mix:
A person who is happy that he is alive and not worried that he is not the richest person on earth, a person who is foolish enough to believe in miracles and stupid enough to trust someone blindly just by listening to the words of his inner voice, a person who has at least one true friend, a person who, when failed, doesn’t say he is unlucky but looks for what went wrong, a person who has found his true love and is loved by the same, a person who if he died today could say he had a happy life, is the perfect one on the planet Earth.
And to conclude, the world isn’t as bad as some cynics say. With so many good people, so many good friends, so much love, happiness, trust, so many miracles happening everyday, the world is still a very nice place to live in.
Boy!! I could be a psychiatrist!!!
When do you trust someone? When u think he is trustworthy? Thats ok. But isnt it a lot nicer to show someone you trust him thereby making him trustworthy? I know trusting someone blindly is a stupid idea. But some times its correct. The best way to gain someones trust is to trust him. Out of 100 people there is only one person who would take advantage of your trusting him. But the other 99 would never dissappoint you. So sometimes or rather many times its this blind trust that helps.
Miracles:
I read this somewhere: "You might be intelligent, but if you are not foolish enough to believe in miracles, then your intelligence is always incomplete". To a practical person, there is no such thing as a miracles, but i say he is wrong. Prayer, belief, faith, hope etc wouldnt have any meaning if there were no miracles. When we pray to God for something, we are hoping for a miracle and we believe that God will help us and this faith causes a miracle. You had an accident and had to rest in your bed for a month, then instead of cursing, try to observe the miracle that you escaped alive. Even at the point of least hope, remember that miracles do happen and ask the divine one for one.
Happiness & Luck:
Happiness, though easy to obtain, is achieved by very few. Happiness and satisfaction move side by side. A new born child is the happiest person on earth. Let me not talk about every child, but stick to a child from typical middle class in AP. As soon as he joins in school, his greatest sources of unhappiness are homework, bullying by the big guys and teachers(atleast in some cases). And then starts the battle for getting a rank in eamcet aieee iit etc. Here his worries about what his rank would be, his future, the ug coll etc make him unhappy. Then, in the next stage, girl friends, pocket money etc. And after that, getting a good job, finding the correct life partner. And then all sorts of problems.
All these lead to unhappiness..
" Instead of being cursing on your being unlucky, try to see the things in which u were lucky ". The general mistake people do is that they are Sherlock Holmes's in observing their bad luck. Yesterday you lost ur wallet. Hell!! But what about the 1000 rs prize you won the day before? Last month, you fell down from stairs and broke your leg. Yeah?? But arent you forgetting your escaping certain death last year? The point to note is that both good luck and bad luck come in the ratio of very close to 50-50. There is definitely no one who is 100% unlucky. So when something bad happens remember that something else which is a lot more good has happened too. And remember "Everything happens for good".
Friendship:
"A friend is someone blah blah blah...". There are lots of quotes that go on like this. But, u can call someone a true friend if you can be urself with him. As simple as that! You should be able to say anything and everything to him. There is only one enemy to friendship, its ego. Get rid of your ego when with your friend. There should be empathy and not envy or ego. Ego feelings like "He didn’t wish me on my birthday, why should I?”, ” let him send me a friend request in orkut, y should I?" and jealous thoughts like "He isn’t that good at chess, how could he win?" are the ultimate villains in friendship. When someone gets a prize, succeeds at something or is celebrating with joy and you feel ur heart dancing with joy too, then that person has found a true friend. And if you won something or succeeded somewhere and someone is distributing sweets, then, congratulations! For you have a true friend. A friend isn’t hard to find, look around carefully and you'll see that everyone is a true friend waiting to be.
Love:
Iam not well qualified to say something about this. But ill try and tell you what I believe. As a man who believes in miracles, I believe in love at first sight. At your first meeting, you might feel that that is the person made for you. But it always isn’t the case. But there is one thing I am very sure of - two persons falling in love with each other simultaneously is rather unrealistic and old black-and-white-movie like. It’s always one falls in love, then tries to impress the other person and thereby makes him fall in love too. So the kind of replies people (mostly gals) give like "don’t feel that way for you", "I considered you a friend" etc are stupid coz why would anyone propose someone if he is sure the other person loves him too? Its only coz he thinks you still considered him only a friend and don’t feel that way for him, he is proposing you rite? Anyway, that’s my argument. But as i already told you, iam not at all qualified to say anything about it. So if u don’t like- lite teesko.
The Perfect mix:
A person who is happy that he is alive and not worried that he is not the richest person on earth, a person who is foolish enough to believe in miracles and stupid enough to trust someone blindly just by listening to the words of his inner voice, a person who has at least one true friend, a person who, when failed, doesn’t say he is unlucky but looks for what went wrong, a person who has found his true love and is loved by the same, a person who if he died today could say he had a happy life, is the perfect one on the planet Earth.
And to conclude, the world isn’t as bad as some cynics say. With so many good people, so many good friends, so much love, happiness, trust, so many miracles happening everyday, the world is still a very nice place to live in.
Boy!! I could be a psychiatrist!!!
1 comments:
"exactly opposite"--i dont think so,what made u to think like that??i do believe world is still a happy place
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